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---
license: apache-2.0
title: Tether AI
sdk: gradio
emoji: πŸš€
colorFrom: gray
short_description: free, trauma-informed AI tool that detects emotional abuse
---
# πŸ” Detecting Hidden Harm: Abuse Language Patterns with Tether AI

Tether is a free, trauma-informed AI tool that detects emotional abuse patterns in text messages. It was built for survivors, by a survivor β€” blending behavioral science, NLP, and lived experience to uncover what often goes unseen.

While most AI tools focus on obvious toxicity or profanity, Tether specializes in **covert abuse**:  
Gaslighting. Guilt-tripping. Control. DARVO.  
The things that leave no bruise, but devastate your sense of self.

---

## 🎯 Mission

Tether exists to help people recognize patterns of harm in language β€” especially those trapped in emotionally abusive relationships who can't quite name what’s happening to them.

This is not a commercial product. There are no ads, no accounts, and no tracking.

It’s here because I lived it. And because I know how hard it is to see clearly while you’re still in it.

---

## πŸ” What It Detects

Tether flags emotional and psychological abuse patterns at the **message level**, including:

- **Control** – overt and covert restrictions on autonomy  
- **Gaslighting** – reality distortion, denial, contradiction  
- **Blame Shifting** – manipulation of responsibility  
- **Dismissiveness** – minimization, shutdown, invalidation  
- **Recovery Phase** – manipulative calm following escalation  
- **DARVO** – defensive reversal of blame  
- **Guilt Tripping**, **Projection**, **Obscure Language**, and more

Each label is assigned based on trained thresholds, tone, and contextual pattern analysis.

It also provides:
- **Abuse Score (0–100%)**
- **Emotional Tone (anger, disgust, fear, neutral, etc.)**
- **Motif Tags** for repeat patterns
- **Risk Estimation** (early, escalating, or high-risk)

---

## 🧠 How It Works

- **Model:** Fine-tuned RoBERTa, multi-label classification  
- **Dataset:** Custom, real-language abuse dataset curated by survivors & reviewed for clinical clarity  
- **Emotion Detection:** `j-hartmann/emotion-english-distilroberta-base`  
- **Visualization:** Real-time timeline chart for multiple messages

---

## ⚠️ Safety + Disclaimer

Tether is **not a diagnostic tool**. It does **not replace therapy**, legal support, or personal judgment.

Instead, it offers **a mirror** β€” one that can help you ask deeper questions about how you're being spoken to.

If you’re in an unsafe situation, we recommend reaching out to a support network or crisis line. For U.S. residents, the **National Domestic Violence Hotline** is available 24/7 at 800-799-7233 or via text/chat.

---

## πŸ§ͺ Use Cases

- 🧍 Survivors seeking clarity on relationship patterns  
- πŸ§‘β€βš–οΈ Legal or DV advocates reviewing communication logs  
- 🧠 Behavioral researchers modeling patterns of harm  
- πŸ“± People asking, *β€œIs this message okay?”* and needing an honest, emotionally neutral lens

---

## πŸ”— Try it

▢️ **Live App**: [https://huggingface.co/spaces/SamanthaStorm/tether](https://huggingface.co/spaces/SamanthaStorm/tether)  
🌐 **More Info**: [https://www.usetetherai.com](https://www.usetetherai.com)

---

## πŸ‘©β€πŸ’» About the Creator

Tether is built by **Samantha Parnham**, a behavioral scientist, survivor, and advocate for trauma-aware tech. Her work blends ABA, psychology, and AI to create tools that help people feel seen, supported, and safe.
title: Abuse Pattern Detector V2
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Check out the configuration reference at https://huggingface.co/docs/hub/spaces-config-reference