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"Social Security PTSD?" Lol.
Is that a new category in the DSM 5? /s (sorry).
"THIS time it's real!"
Um... so all the other times weren't, and she admits it!
Oof, this is so unhinged.
She is demanding that you regulate her out of control big feelings.
But their feelings are always the biggest in the room, the house, the city, the stratosphere.
No one else's feelings even come into consideration.
She doesn't really even emphasize with "him". Even that is about HER FEELS!
Oof, I'm sorry OP.
Hold the line. This is not your responsibility and never has been.
You've probably been parentified since you were 2 years old, and were taught that you and only you were responsible for her emotional regulation, and you did a terrible job of it (/S).
No child should be raised to be in charge of the parent's feelings.
It's not fair, and it is abuse.
This is abuse.
Try taking care of your own feelings, just as a novelty experiment.
This is what I've been telling myself:
"Hey! I have a wild, unprecedented, never been tried idea! I'll see what it might be like to take care of myself and not feel at all responsible for her big feelings, real or not."
I go back to the outofthefog website every time and reread it to absolve myself of the entanglement (FOG = Fear, Obligation, Guilt, their tools of control).
www.outofthefog.net
Please be kind to yourself and let her learn to adult on her own.
She needs to get help from someone else or decide that it's important enough for her to step up and do the grown up thing, and not use this as just another way to drag you in and manipulate you.
This is so much like my mom that it was almost triggering.
We get it here! We understand! | 2025-01-28 |
The boots and top together are giving pirate. It looks really great! But not for the workplace. | 2025-01-28 |
Any updates on this?
I hate for you to have to give up your cat :( | 2025-01-28 |
А будет такая же громкая новость, что S&P отыграл уже две трети падения и сейчас находится даже выше, чем был на прошлой неделе? Крикуны.
UPD: Глянул по основным игрокам, похоже только NVidia и Broadcom не оправились, остальные уже отыграли падение. | 2025-01-28 |
Noice bruh, also someone else already said this but nice rolling ball. | 2025-01-28 |
Will the only lasting legacy of that trade be Kyle Higashioka? | 2025-01-28 |
Drink electrolytes, take some immodium and zofran at the first sign of diarrhea or nausea (if you’re more likely to get constipated, but Oxy Powder gut cleanse or Miralax. Buy some Fairlife Elite Protein Shakes (they’re the only ones that taste good) to help you keep your calories and protein up.
Never go to that place again. Just buy tirzepatide on your own. I don’t know why anyone would go to a med spa. | 2025-01-28 |
Shes speedrunning no contact and a nursing home | 2025-01-28 |
She's better off as a philanthropist than a politician.
You're better off not serving, can't get shit done with how rotten the government is. It's unfixable. | 2025-01-28 |
I love hims already. | 2025-01-28 |
All this negative comments are a very good sign! Yes burning 15% would definitely cause a shock factor! | 2025-01-28 |
Nice gothic style clothes | 2025-01-28 |
This is so my mom lol she’s a bpd sewer. We made some elephants for my daughter before nc, and I kept telling her what colors I wanted. She was just pulling out more options even though I kept telling her “hey I like the pink.” And the options she was pulling were these whacky, old lady patterns than as a 28 year old minimalist, I hated. She doesn’t know me at all or listen lol | 2025-01-28 |
I'm in block IOE09284 and got RFE after 56 business days.. Guess you will have to wait for this - I found this trakcing tool helpful - [https://app.powerbi.com/view?r=eyJrIjoiMzk4OTFkZGYtZjYwZi00MmM5LTlkM2ItMDUxMzAxNzUzMzE2IiwidCI6IjRhMmQ0YzQwLTZjNjYtNDhlZS04MzBlLThmZDdmYzllMWNmYiIsImMiOjR9](https://app.powerbi.com/view?r=eyJrIjoiMzk4OTFkZGYtZjYwZi00MmM5LTlkM2ItMDUxMzAxNzUzMzE2IiwidCI6IjRhMmQ0YzQwLTZjNjYtNDhlZS04MzBlLThmZDdmYzllMWNmYiIsImMiOjR9) | 2025-01-28 |
I'd love one, and have dm'ed you😀 | 2025-01-28 |
*Litch jumps slightly, nearly dropping a glowing, crackling vial of unstable magic in his bony hands. He steadies it quickly, glaring at Tay with a mix of panic and exasperation.*
Litch: “Where did you come from?! How do you keep getting into my castle?! With how often you get in, I might as well name a wing after you!”
*His eyes narrow*
Litch: “Wait—what happened to the zombie guards?!”
*He looks past her toward the hallway*
Litch: If you ate them again, I swear—! | 2025-01-28 |
grandpa it’s not fashion week | 2025-01-28 |
Surely there has to be a breaking point. People can't afford to buy bread. If my Grandfather ever says the line to me "When I was like you I worked so hard, you young ones have it so easy" I'll show him this data. If someone said that I had to live during the war but after that I'd be able to move to a country with no education and no language, but I'd be able to buy a decent size house, raise a family, have a business, buy an investment property on the beach, i'd say sign me up right now. Boomers fucked us and ruined this country for milennials and future generations. Better to jump ship now. | 2025-01-28 |
Coaxed into the Hays code | 2025-01-28 |
nah, doesn't that usually lead to a bad year for the player? | 2025-01-28 |
Are these people just gambling now? | 2025-01-28 |
Man the last time I said L on one of the posts In this subreddit as a joke it got reported as harassment. I literally only said "L". Oh btw L | 2025-01-28 |
Great look my dude. | 2025-01-28 |
No wonder they call their team as "team payaman" literal palang payaman lang kahit sa maduming paraan. | 2025-01-28 |
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Ive sold 5+ antiarmor mods at 10k each in the last few weekends of playing. Granted my game stays on for most of my weekend. I sell AA, lightweight and other damage buffing mods for 10k. All other mods are 200. Am I the problem? | 2025-01-28 |
They can be. I don’t have numbers but if the screen is showing black no power is being used to power that part of the display.
I’m thinking about 5-10% less than a similar sized LCD.
But many factors come into play. Refresh rate and brightness settings.
It really depends on how it’s used.
If you have it all the way up bright it could use more. | 2025-01-28 |
It's just a crab in pic 1 | 2025-01-28 |
Not a Casio today but here we are
https://preview.redd.it/5au7yhnkmtfe1.jpeg?width=2268&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=24e7a3e354f27e9bb14d2eace4ff4afa06fa3661 | 2025-01-28 |
Ah yes, the stretch before the sploot | 2025-01-28 |
A | 2025-01-28 |
>correspond aux critères de beauté standard (fine, type mannequin
Car on sait que tu as 54654635132 DM, matchs, que tu vises le top 10% des mecs, qu'on veut pas finir sur tiktok pour avoir abordé une meuf en tant que "sale gros dégueulasse"... | 2025-01-28 |
To me, looks like they're grey, a color that tends to reflect light and take on blues/greens in natural daylight. I have a photo of me wearing a dark blue beanie in a bathroom selfie and my eyes look clearly 'colorless' slate/dark grey. In other photos, my eyes look more blue like yours. | 2025-01-28 |
I have a boyfwemd | 2025-01-28 |
Jizzlord | 2025-01-28 |
what a comment.
not only is isaac SIGNIFIGANTLY better written as of the OP time skip, but zoro isn't even a side character lol, he's part of the main cast | 2025-01-28 |
That shit is clean!!! I’d rock that for sure. | 2025-01-28 |
🐈mommm!!! Pets! Treats! | 2025-01-28 |
I’d use my left hand for the first 1300. But that 400 meter dash was rough. All sprint. | 2025-01-28 |
I’ll keep this simple for you. Spend money now. Don’t save for retirement in any meaningful way. But cOmPoUnDiNG. Yea, tell them to compound sand when you guys are clearing 1.5M a year or more. Also, one of you may get cancer as soon as residency ends and then you’ve just been miserable. You’ll be alright. Enjoy the little life that you have now. Good luck. | 2025-01-28 |
Aga tegu oli lihtsalt sekspositiivse lifestyle coachiga kes andis neile haridust, mida koolis ei anta! Mis te siin mögisete nagu mingid ekreiidid ja varrofännid? /s | 2025-01-28 |
Very cool! | 2025-01-28 |
Overeducated and underemployed poor. 2 master's degrees, none in STEM poor. | 2025-01-28 |
Вампиры бояться именно прямых лучей солнца , то есть если солнечные лучи от чего то отражаются по типу- луна, зеркало , и тд то им ничего не будет | 2025-01-28 |
NAL. Go to the police. Go to NBI. Report it to the school & furnish them a copy. Get a lawyer - pro bono if meron. Goodluck. | 2025-01-28 |
I have a sample of 040 fair neutral and the full size of 050 fair peach. The 040 is a perfect match for me and my skin is neutral just slightly cool leaning. The 050 is definitely too peach (but what I was matched to based on the online color match tool). | 2025-01-28 |
no, BUT ALL I NEED IS GARLIC BREAD 👹👹 | 2025-01-28 |
I dont understand why this is so contraversial. It's just a wallpaper that you wanted to share. These people are getting pissy for nothing. It's a wallpaper. If you dont like the theme, move on to something else. Plenty of people, including me, think anime themed wallpapers are cringy, but you dont see me downvoting everyone's shit and calling them disgusting. | 2025-01-28 |
Use some sorceries like night comet | 2025-01-28 |
This sub Reddit will also be the reason I buy it lmao | 2025-01-28 |
Not me | 2025-01-28 |
Working for me : https://www.reddit.com/r/Garmin/s/UHEBZ3bDG4 | 2025-01-28 |
I remember Thiiis | 2025-01-28 |
Anyone who tells you this is a bad video should never talk about the '80s ever again. This is one of the greatest music videos ever made. My man plays the air keyboard in it. THE AIR KEYBOARD! | 2025-01-28 |
Beaucoup d'hommes pensent être parfait | 2025-01-28 |
Completely unrelated, but how many working guillotines do you think are in the US? | 2025-01-28 |
She threatened to kill you.
No amount of drunkeness excuses this, and it STRONGLY suggests that she's considered it in the past.
The only reason they'd have arrested her, is if she admitted it, or there was an obvious assault.
I hope she serves enough time to ween her (and you) off this trashy behavior. | 2025-01-28 |
Ouch. That's not going to rub off. | 2025-01-28 |
Just buy ICP it’s all you need TBH, once it goes you will struggle to catch it. Once you do your research on it you will realise its potential | 2025-01-28 |
Go to the police. Or the DSWD. Anywhere but the school. | 2025-01-28 |
nah, it is true, I just got a A in my college writing class last semester, but I sure have no clue what a verb is | 2025-01-28 |
Xrp 🤓 | 2025-01-28 |
Not sure about undertones, but just straight up re: your question (how to balance cooler toned complexion with warmer tones in makeup), you might find these videos by Kackie helpful; she’s a makeup content creator who is also a painter so has a lot of neat color theory vids. (Fair warning: she’s not very pro color analysis, just bc she likes to help people make whatever colors they want to wear work better for them.) She talks about how anyone can wear any color of makeup as long as you use things like opacity/transparency to your advantage and “fill in the gap” between your the colors naturally present in your skin and the color you’re trying to achieve. For example, let’s say I have a cool pink undertone and want to wear a warm orange blush. It might look more natural for me to apply a peachy pink blush (closer to my natural pink, but pushing warmer) first, then pop a transparent orange product on top, as that creates a sort of color gradient that looks more natural.
[Kackie video on warmth/coolness as a spectrum](https://youtu.be/5hngwxiNkpk?si=xSI6egkqb5ODleJ4)
[video on “filling in color gaps”](https://youtu.be/q83CWQxUjIM?si=v85A6HGFhu350AqU) | 2025-01-28 |
We hatez to burst youse bubble but milks and cheese willz makez bootifuls princess sickie baby!
Waylon and Willie | 2025-01-28 |
To be fair those Yammy units are just outdated and it was just a different time and meta. | 2025-01-28 |
Did something major happen today to cancel Social Security and Medicare? | 2025-01-28 |
No | 2025-01-28 |
I had something similar, where my eyes have always been like a dark pale blue on the outside and more of a pea/emerald green color on the inside ring. Nowadays I just noticed at some point, now entering my early 30s, that my eyes seemed to lose color and are more like...
A dark slate 'charcoal' grey on the outside ring, and then a lighter silver-y grey on the inner ring, but it's like a nice gradient that makes it look like a single color from far away but then you come up close and can see the rings.
I have no idea why, originally thought it was a health concern but I think it has something to do with collagen build up in the eyes with age that makes blue eyes grey-er? Still not entirely sure. | 2025-01-28 |
Slothana 🦥🚀🚀🚀 | 2025-01-28 |
Cinnamon panels have a center. Edit the panel and drag the icon toward the center. You should see a colored box appear. That's the center part of the panel. Drop it there and you should be good.
It does take a little experimentation the first time. | 2025-01-28 |
Finally I was able to get mine back up. If you were able to turn it off, after a few tries, then do the file deletion as mentioned on this post:
[Failed Garmin Update (blue triangle boot loop) - here is what is happening and how to fix : r/Garmin](https://www.reddit.com/r/Garmin/comments/1ic1btf/failed_garmin_update_blue_triangle_boot_loop_here/)
I hope this helps | 2025-01-28 |
I'm surprised nobody has mentioned this yet (or maybe I missed it because I can't remember the episode's name) but there's an episode with various clones drifting through space in escape pods as droids slowly and methodically cut them open to kill the clones.
I feel like the worst part of that would be slowly hearing your squadmates scream for help and then fade out one after another, isolated in a metal box in the void, not knowing what happens until it's your turn and then being unable to do anything but helplessly watch your own death. | 2025-01-28 |
We are screwed. I figure if we hit the streets, I'm looking for an intentional community unless a friend can take us in. Maybe his sister would take us in but we aren't sure.
By the way look at world history at what happens when people start starving and are in the streets.
We are both screwed if Social Security and Medicare go bye bye. I always had Medicaid spend downs when on but that's still a bad development. Husband is uninsured, if the charity clinic shuts down that's really bad news.
If I lose medication, I will die, some stuff I know naturopath remedies for but with no money, that's not as useful and some meds I need the modern stuff to stay alive. | 2025-01-28 |
You absolutely did not ruin your chance. I had a screening interview with a hire manager. After the screening, requested an on-site interview. We scheduled it for a Monday afternoon. On Sunday I started feeling sick. On Monday I had a temperature and it was really feeling bad and extremely exhausted. Because I had a fever I reached out and asked if we could reschedule and let them know why. They rescheduled for Wednesday afternoon, but let me know that if we had to move it again they were OK with that. On Tuesday I felt bad enough to go to the doctor. It turned out I had Covid. I reached back out to them to let them know that I wouldn’t be able to be in person on Wednesday either because I was diagnosed with Covid. It was a medical center so of course they were OK with that. They then gave me the choice of interviewing virtually on Wednesday afternoon or virtually on Friday. Because I was feeling bad I chose to go with Friday. I still wasn’t feeling great Friday, but I was able to interview. I was contacted the following Monday to schedule a final interview and was ultimately offered the position. Unfortunately, I did decline it because we weren’t able to negotiate a salary in line with what I’m currently making although we had discussed salary before so that was a bit of a surprise for me. But all of that was to say you absolutely did not necessarily ruin your chance. Hope you feel better and good luck! | 2025-01-28 |
Personnellement, non. C'est pour çà que j'ai opté pour une sacoche | 2025-01-28 |
I like it! The one villager living behind the town hall would drive me crazy though 😂 | 2025-01-28 |
I agree. I see some cool games made in gamemaker on Twitter for instance but they can’t be posted on this subreddit because the rules says you can’t promote your own game here and a clip of something cool can be interpreted as promoting your game. | 2025-01-28 |
Yes, "sick day". Sure. We all know the truth. Lol. | 2025-01-28 |
Guitar solo on easily | 2025-01-28 |
Mick Hucknall | 2025-01-28 |
Congrats! Nice work! | 2025-01-28 |
What did the school do? | 2025-01-28 |
(Not a lawyer, obviously)
Update us, please. Sana di makatulog ung bata na gumawa sa anak mo.. mapapatay pa ung anak mo ng wala sa oras. Kakaloka | 2025-01-28 |
I looked at the center and saw green but I see now they are blue with a bit of green but mostly blue. | 2025-01-28 |
wow, this 2100 is amazing!
which model is this one? | 2025-01-28 |
you can turn off the LEDs by holding your finger on the back of the dock. the “charging” and “fully charged” LED still flashes when it’s changing and fully charged | 2025-01-28 |
It was just announced in the last 24 hours. Of course it’s just starting. Tell me action beyond hand wringing has started. | 2025-01-28 |
Here is a sample of Pattern #4. Make sure you watch the ball path. Hook.....Stop.....Hook.....Stop......HOOOOOOOKKKK
[https://www.youtube.com/shorts/50BbJMIIqxA](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/50BbJMIIqxA) | 2025-01-28 |
Honestly it has happened to me SO many times that what seems like a shared general climbing interest becomes a situation where the man climbing partner ends up coming onto me. In fact, I think some guys only entertain climbing outside with women when they are attracted to them and think it could go somewhere. It’s a shitty situation but it’s unfortunately been true again and again in my almost-10 years of climbing. It doesn’t ruin climbing for me but it definitely reduces the population of climbers I’m interested in getting out with. I have friends in the climbing community that only wanted to get outdoors with me when we had a thing, and that is very telling for me too. We’re still friends, but we don’t get outside anymore (even if there was a time we went out every weekend for a month).
If you don’t want to give up, don’t! If you are over it, then I guess do? You’ll be able to find more partners and they won’t all be great and they won’t all last but that’s fine, you learn from everyone. And honestly, as long as you brace yourself for dude’s mediocre-at-best intentions, you may have a chance to get out with some of them, have fun and learn stuff from them on a few occasions before their attraction is any issue.
TLDR I don’t want to sound too shitty but they’re using you so you can use them back 🤣 Do be realistic about your experience with every new partner, make sure they are someone you can trust to the best of your understanding. Stay safe and if you want to keep having fun with climbing, just enjoy it whenever you can. Having fun is a natural way to meet more people and find more people willing to take you out. Don’t be afraid to share your struggles! Good luck | 2025-01-28 |
I like 1 3 4 5 and 7 | 2025-01-28 |
Alors pour aller à contre courant des autres commentaires, pour mon cas je n'ai jamais eu de problèmes que tu décris.
Je me maquille depuis le lycée, j'ai maintenant 33 ans, donc ça fait quelques années quand-même, et jamais un soucis.
Tout au plus des interrogations, des questionnements, je pense surtout sur la sexualité, bien que je sois 100% hétéro.
Donc désolé pour ce que tu décris, je dois avoir de la chance hélas. | 2025-01-28 |
Paul Smith was outstanding as Beast Rabban. | 2025-01-28 |
The threshold for child abuse material is not whether the child is clothed but the context of why it was filmed and also why the person has possession of it. For example even children with their genitals covered can be considered child abuse material and prosecuted under numerous laws if the posing of the children is deliberately sexual in nature.
A person should have no problems of having their child pictured nude in the hospital. If someone else has a picture of their child nude in the hospital alongside other abuse material it can be considered to be an offending charge to add to a case.
There is interpretation of the events for such photos. I've heard stories of people getting the police called on them by photo developers for such a picture who were later found to have done nothing wrong. So for that reason I would have it developed at a kiosk, and also for the fact that I wouldn't want such a picture of my child to be seen by a stranger anyway. But unless you had a past with child abuse or child abuse material I cannot imagine any reasonable officer or prosecutor or judge or jury taking issue with it, or at least not all of them in a line.
THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE. | 2025-01-28 |
Toshi | 2025-01-28 |
Repeaters are my best friend for regaining endurance at the start of lead season. 7 seconds on, 3 off, repeat until failure. If you do a few sets of repeaters every other day at home you should notice your endurance come back within a few weeks | 2025-01-28 |
I shipped an item from California to Atlanta on January 2nd. It arrived on the 25th! I was losing my mind! | 2025-01-28 |
You’re missing $PEP (pepecoin) 🚀 | 2025-01-28 |
Thats a fuckin amazing haircut! It all suits you | 2025-01-28 |
Just because you’re battle tested doesn’t mean you’re not dying by the hundreds of thousands. | 2025-01-28 |
It would just be nice to place collectors in a shelter even if they don’t collect items. | 2025-01-28 |
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