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I have been concerned about my cousins baby since he was born.
My cousin and her bf have never been known for keeping a clean house (trash and stuff everywhere, doesn’t look like it’s been cleaned in five years). They also keep their dogs locked in kennels nearly 24/7. They’re let out to eat and use the bathroom in t... | Delicious-Opinion710 | 2023-12-04T05:17:50 | null | WIBTA if I report my cousin and her bf to CPS for being unfit parents | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ad4x2/wibta_if_i_report_my_cousin_and_her_bf_to_cps_for/ | 18ad4x2 | 2,914 | 0 |
I’m 15, he’s 37 with 4 boys. The oldest is about 11 and the youngest will be 2 years old when they come over and visit (next year) and I want to talk to him about this as soon as possible.
His boys are rowdy, screamer’s and fighters, I love them im their favorite uncle. But the last time they came over I didn’t have f... | ShroomBuggee | 2023-12-04T05:36:20 | null | WIBTA if I talk to my brother about his kids before they come over? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18adg0j/wibta_if_i_talk_to_my_brother_about_his_kids/ | 18adg0j | 776 | 13 |
I am 28F and my mother 60F. Long story short when i was 18 yo i met this person in language classes, he was in his mid 20s and a walking red flag but I was blinded by being noticed by a much older person. My parents were concerned but by the time they tried to stop it I was way too deep in his abuse I couldnt break it... | justanotheeredditor | 2023-12-04T05:36:56 | null | AITA for telling my mom to go to therapy and move on from an event that happened to me a decade ago? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18adgbz/aita_for_telling_my_mom_to_go_to_therapy_and_move/ | 18adgbz | 2,909 | 7 |
I know the title doesn't give much information, so here we go.
My husband and I buy gifts for everyone, and this year we were able to buy some more expensive items, a $50 drone for my BIL, for instance.
Recently, I was told of an incident that happened at my brother's (24m) job where a 17 yr old coworker called him a... | Rawr0818 | 2023-12-04T05:46:41 | null | WIBTA if I returned my BIL Xmas gift? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18adlzt/wibta_if_i_returned_my_bil_xmas_gift/ | 18adlzt | 1,036 | 4 |
I live in Arizona. Just bought a house this year on the outskirts of town in straight up farmland. I see creepy critters all day long. Here where we live, there are venomous snakes, all the different spiders including tarantulas, and worst of all… ARIZONA BARK SCORPIONS, look them up. We have 4 children so naturally, I... | MRuby90 | 2023-12-04T05:47:35 | null | AITA for waiting for my husband to go out of town to do something he said not to do? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18admir/aita_for_waiting_for_my_husband_to_go_out_of_town/ | 18admir | 2,354 | 2 |
For context I (20M) live in a small college town. About a year ago I moved into an apartment with four other people. When I first moved in and before I met my roommates I saw someone on grindr who was 0 feet away. I immediately hit up the profile because I was desperate to make friends or any gay friends (not fwbs). It... | Professional_Sass | 2023-12-04T05:52:20 | null | WIBTA For My Friend Being Around My Roommate | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18adpb9/wibta_for_my_friend_being_around_my_roommate/ | 18adpb9 | 2,187 | 2 |
hey! i (18f) am a freshman at college, and around may when i had freshly gotten my acceptance, i knew i wanted to attend. i found another girl that went to my old highschool (the one i attended 9th-10th grade) and we connected since we’re both going to that college, and she asked if we can be roommates and i was like s... | Kitchen-Swimmer-9846 | 2023-12-04T05:53:48 | null | AITA for not choosing my current roommate as my next year’s roommate ? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18adq5k/aita_for_not_choosing_my_current_roommate_as_my/ | 18adq5k | 2,380 | 3 |
To set the scene, I'm a college student (20nb) who still lives with their grandma and mom (dad left the picture a long time ago.)
They've tried their best raising me and being a family, but recently, living with them feels like hell. I can't go out with friends without telling them exactly who I'm going with, where I... | Oreowashere | 2023-12-04T05:53:55 | null | WIBTA if I moved out even though my parents are trying to fix their mistakes? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18adq84/wibta_if_i_moved_out_even_though_my_parents_are/ | 18adq84 | 2,311 | 4 |
my (17m) boyfriend (18m) and i don’t fight… ever. when we do, it’s usually cleared up in about an hour or two. this fight has been going on for about three days now and i hate it and im wondering if i might be the asshole for potentially starting it.
some backstory: i’m currently going through some family drama. my mo... | throwingaway4238 | 2023-12-04T05:58:27 | null | AITA for getting upset after my boyfriend suggested I reconnect with my grandparents? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18adss6/aita_for_getting_upset_after_my_boyfriend/ | 18adss6 | 2,870 | 6 |
My boyfriend of more than two years and I have decided to really test how we are together when we live together. Unfortunately, he shares the house with his mom (they have separate floors for each other). My boyfriend has half ownership of the house.
I will stay with him for a very limited time (less than two months), ... | uhmmhihello | 2023-12-04T06:03:16 | null | AITA for thinking that my boyfriend's mom is unreasonable for assuming I wanna meet everyone in their family and their neighbors | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18advwr/aita_for_thinking_that_my_boyfriends_mom_is/ | 18advwr | 1,578 | 5 |
I'm a 20-year-old female who unintentionally moved in with my 24-year-old boyfriend. Originally, it was for a week to celebrate our one-year anniversary, but it turned into a permanent move. My parents (56M, 62F) are furious, viewing it as disrespectful because my boyfriend shares a house with his two brothers. Despite... | tipofthowaway | 2023-12-04T06:09:27 | null | AITA for moving in with my boyfriend? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18adzey/aita_for_moving_in_with_my_boyfriend/ | 18adzey | 749 | 8 |
AITA for being mad that my wife started smoking cigarettes again and lied about it?
My wife (40) and I (48) have been together for 15 years, with eleven years married. When we dated, she smoked, and I hated it, but I had no right to say anything.
As soon as things became serious, I said that I would never marry someo... | Ghost_Rider_RN | 2023-12-04T06:11:28 | null | AITA for calling out my wife for breaking her promise and smoking again. | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ae0iy/aita_for_calling_out_my_wife_for_breaking_her/ | 18ae0iy | 1,981 | 6 |
So over the past few months I’ve been living with 3 roommates in a shared house, each with our own private rooms. None of us really knew each other beforehand, and for the most part we keep to ourselves aside from some occasional interactions. I’ve been working almost 60 hour weeks, so when I’m not working, I’m usually... | JuulPods169 | 2023-12-04T06:13:34 | null | WIBTA if I asked my roommate to stop moving my things around? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ae1nu/wibta_if_i_asked_my_roommate_to_stop_moving_my/ | 18ae1nu | 2,537 | 1 |
For necessary backstory. My partner (30f) and I (32m) have been together for about 7 years and have a kid together. We have a relatively solid relationship but things got rocky when I caught her flirting with another guy and hiding things from me, we’re working on rebuilding trust and besides a few small hiccups along ... | Quiet_Cut_7673 | 2023-12-04T06:15:27 | null | WIBTA if I tell my partner I’m uncomfortable with her going out dancing? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ae2ql/wibta_if_i_tell_my_partner_im_uncomfortable_with/ | 18ae2ql | 1,468 | 6 |
My (29F) SIL (33F) lives in the same community as me and my husband (32M). She and her husband had plans to come by our home after they came back from picking up their 1 year old son from her mom’s house. When they arrived she was extremely angry and distraught and explained that her husband dropped her and baby off wh... | WatchForGlass | 2023-12-04T06:23:46 | null | AITA for telling my SIL that she endangered her baby? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ae71m/aita_for_telling_my_sil_that_she_endangered_her/ | 18ae71m | 2,713 | 167 |
so this story involves my brother (17M) his gf (18F) my mom (50F) and myself (20F).
So my brothers gf will come over for days-weeks at a time, and not bring a single thing. so, instead she’ll use all of my stuff. wear my clothes, my makeup, shoes, use all my shampoo and conditioner (she’s even raided the shower and t... | bruhkms18 | 2023-12-04T06:23:58 | null | AITA for embarrassing my brothers gf by “freaking out over a brush”? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ae74y/aita_for_embarrassing_my_brothers_gf_by_freaking/ | 18ae74y | 1,988 | 90 |
My mom and dad had built a company together over the years. My mom had allowed my uncle to join the company. After working for a few years in the company, he stopped going to the office all together and refuses to do work yet still receives his pay. It has been going for 3 or so years.
I heard this and immediately tal... | Grape14 | 2023-12-04T06:31:26 | null | AITA for wanting to fire my uncle for freeloading in my parents' company? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aeb5w/aita_for_wanting_to_fire_my_uncle_for_freeloading/ | 18aeb5w | 1,099 | 4 |
he threw a party without asking any of us housemates on a Sunday, came home at 2am
Monday morning from a music festival, woke us all up and freaked tf out of the dog. Then decided to have sex that SHAKES our entire house for 45 minutes when we all have work tomorrow. And when I say shakes I mean we live in an old Queen... | AnxiousBee89 | 2023-12-04T06:38:26 | null | AITA for asking housemate to stop having house shaking sex at 2am on weeknights | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aeetl/aita_for_asking_housemate_to_stop_having_house/ | 18aeetl | 817 | 9 |
Hi y’all’s, I’ll just preface this by saying that this is a throwaway account because my boyfriend does know my reddit
And I’ll put a TW ⚠️ for Drug Use
So my boyfriend (20m) and I (19m) got into a pretty heated argument last night and he hasn’t said a word to me since, but I really don’t think I’m in the wrong..
My... | Acrobatic_Ant4862 | 2023-12-04T06:38:43 | null | AITA for not telling my BF Specifics about my past? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aeeyg/aita_for_not_telling_my_bf_specifics_about_my_past/ | 18aeeyg | 1,754 | 4 |
So my spouse and I moved in with another couple about 4 months ago. Early on, all four of us agreed on space boundaries for the bathroom. Half the counter space for us, half for them. Same for the bathtub. But lately they just haven't been respecting those boundaries and keep leaving their stuff on our side. It's reall... | Suitable_Molasses_18 | 2023-12-04T06:42:00 | null | WIBTA for putting up a sign in the bathroom saying "remember to keep your things on your side" | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aegph/wibta_for_putting_up_a_sign_in_the_bathroom/ | 18aegph | 734 | 1 |
Yesterday I finally decided to rehome one of my two cats. I feel incredibly guilty about it, and can’t help but feel I didn’t try enough.
Long story short I adopted my first cat Boots about 1.5 years ago. He is an indoor/outdoor cat and was very affectionate with me all the way up to the point where I had adopted a ki... | 24sandwhiches | 2023-12-04T06:42:36 | null | AITA for rehoming my cat? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aeh0g/aita_for_rehoming_my_cat/ | 18aeh0g | 3,249 | 5 |
Me (20f) and my friends (fake names) Janice (21f) and flora (21f) decided that we would all go to the movies and watch the ballad of songbirds and snakes together. We were all very excited to go, and had planned out everything. Flora would drive, I would buy snacks, and Janice would buy drinks. Two days before the day ... | Deep-Sprinkles-7954 | 2023-12-04T06:44:23 | null | AITA for not going with my friends to the movie? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aehy1/aita_for_not_going_with_my_friends_to_the_movie/ | 18aehy1 | 1,230 | 4 |
So a bit of context first, so imma do in topics.
1-I'm 19 years old and I dropped out of high school because I was being bullied and I couldn't handle it so I decided to leave, as a result I ended up not completing it and not having that certificate but I really want to go to UNI, so I got in touch with a school where... | ViolattaLia | 2023-12-04T06:48:47 | null | AITA for not helping my mother to rent a apartment? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aek87/aita_for_not_helping_my_mother_to_rent_a_apartment/ | 18aek87 | 2,942 | 3 |
I will start a job at an airline and we get free flight privileges and can also extend them to our parents (including step-parents and in laws) but we only can have two under that category. After all, you can only legally have two parents.
But, I don’t particularly like my step-mother (for context my mother died a fe... | No-Note-9960 | 2023-12-04T06:54:32 | null | WIBTA for not granting free flight privileges to my step-mom? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aen7g/wibta_for_not_granting_free_flight_privileges_to/ | 18aen7g | 1,487 | 39 |
I (29M) have a niece who's three, let's call her Ivy. Ivy recently became a big sister to twins, and is having a hard time adjusting. She's been having these little meltdowns, where she will lay in the middle of the floor crying. When I came over yesterday, she was in the midst of one. My sister told me to ignore the ... | trav94- | 2023-12-04T07:00:23 | null | AITA for soothing my niece, against my sister's wishes? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aeq0e/aita_for_soothing_my_niece_against_my_sisters/ | 18aeq0e | 801 | 5 |
I(16F) need an outside perspective because there's a bunch of small things making me gradually dislike my friend Michelle. I feel bad about it, but I can't help being visibly irritable towards her and I don’t enjoy being around her anymore. Maybe I'm overthinking it? Let me lay out a few instances:
In a recent group ... | After-Display1056 | 2023-12-04T07:02:06 | null | AITA for secretly starting to resent my friend of 11 years? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aer1h/aita_for_secretly_starting_to_resent_my_friend_of/ | 18aer1h | 2,912 | 8 |
I am in my early 20s. I’m from SEA. I dropped out of college earlier this year. I was a freshman. I dropped out for the reason that we can’t afford to pay for my tuition fees. Although there are state universities, I wasn’t able to get in due to the tight competition (pandemic period, no entrance exams).
I had a part... | pbmzzi | 2023-12-04T07:02:51 | null | AITA for hating my parents? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aergj/aita_for_hating_my_parents/ | 18aergj | 1,764 | 6 |
I (f19) have a cat. I have had my cat since I was 17 I was a depressed teen who smoked a alot but when I saw the magestic cat in the pet store all my problems watched away
I have now stoped smoking. I’m clean 1 year
So I got my adorable furry friend but now two years later I’m soon getting married to my bf (m25) and... | Sweetannon | 2023-12-04T07:10:44 | null | AITA for not giving up my cat | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aev7m/aita_for_not_giving_up_my_cat/ | 18aev7m | 534 | 16 |
My (29F) husband's (30M) parents are wealthy, and he tries to take whatever chance he can to pay them back for the privileged upbringing they've afforded him. We're talking thousands per year - he tries to pay for their bills, send them $1,000 for every birthday/holiday/etc. They try to refuse because they do not need ... | AnonThrowawayAnon051 | 2023-12-04T07:20:01 | null | AITA for not wanting my husband to keep sending money to his wealthy parents? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aezjv/aita_for_not_wanting_my_husband_to_keep_sending/ | 18aezjv | 2,994 | 46 |
I know Reddit loves dogs (as everyone does) so hit me with the YTA if you think it. I prefer the brutal honesty as both me & my partner are autistic (so emotions & disagreements are not our strong point) & Reddit has helped me before.
My partner has a Japanese Akita (a big dog, to put it into context, he told me her b... | Stairs_MyOldNemesis | 2023-12-04T07:20:03 | null | AITA for refusing to look after my partner’s dog? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aezkl/aita_for_refusing_to_look_after_my_partners_dog/ | 18aezkl | 2,582 | 11 |
Okay so I (19F) know the title sounds silly, but there’s a lot more to it. So I called my boyfriend
(19) and had mentioned that i would like flowers. He hasn’t gotten me any in a while and i just simply mentioned that i want flowers. he said that it’s ridiculous that i’m asking for flowers because he’s gotten me so mu... | Glitteryslime | 2023-12-04T07:20:40 | null | AITA for getting upset about not getting flowers? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aezwd/aita_for_getting_upset_about_not_getting_flowers/ | 18aezwd | 2,501 | 2 |
I (32f) have been with my boyfriend for about six years now. In the recent past he has been caught sexting other women. The other day it was like my spidey senses are tingling and I noticed his phone was unlocked and he was downstairs so over course I went through it and of course I found what I was looking for. Now to... | Technical-Garbage211 | 2023-12-04T07:32:53 | null | AITA for going through my bpyfriends phone. | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18af5m2/aita_for_going_through_my_bpyfriends_phone/ | 18af5m2 | 915 | 5 |
HI I am 18 (M) I have a wedding coming up about in 2 months and also had a wedding a week ago the wedding was of my brother with whom I am not that close but I am looking forward to have a deeper bond with in the future as I think he is a good human being which I found out from my closest family members and have als... | Dangerous_Cheek_1883 | 2023-12-04T07:41:10 | null | WIBTA for not doing manual Laboure at my brothers wedding | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18af9eq/wibta_for_not_doing_manual_laboure_at_my_brothers/ | 18af9eq | 1,646 | 2 |
I am not a native English speaker, so I apologize if I make mistakes.
I'm a 17-year-old guy, my girlfriend is 16 years old. I love her, and her family has replaced my family for me. I think my family has never really loved me for many reasons.
It's completely different with my girlfriend's parents. They love each o... | ThrowRaMedium69 | 2023-12-04T07:52:34 | null | AITA for refusing to help my girlfriend's parents because I should go to work? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18afet8/aita_for_refusing_to_help_my_girlfriends_parents/ | 18afet8 | 2,313 | 7 |
Me and my two best friends were walking towards our school gate when suddenly one of my bf started walking fast ahead of us, normally I would catch up to her but today I didn't really feel like running since I'm experiencing a low-grade fever. Before this happened, I forgot to wait for her on our way to the school gymn... | snowoverthecity | 2023-12-04T07:55:33 | null | AITA for making my friend upset? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18afgb1/aita_for_making_my_friend_upset/ | 18afgb1 | 1,238 | 2 |
My parents found out that I have cards from them that I have never opened and were quite upset. I also have cards from extended family (grandparents, elderly Aunts and Uncles) collecting dust that I don't plan to open until after those people have died.
When I was young, my grandpa I was close with, passed away unexpe... | dumpster-pirate | 2023-12-04T07:57:49 | null | AITA for not opening birthday/ graduation cards? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18afhc4/aita_for_not_opening_birthday_graduation_cards/ | 18afhc4 | 1,285 | 14 |
For some context, my daughter (14) has wanted a limited edition box set, however me (34M( and my wife (32F) at the time didn’t have the money for it, so we approached our son and asked if he’d be ok with looking into getting it with the promise of getting him special gifts too, he said he’d definitely look into it, so ... | MrDc_Gaming | 2023-12-04T08:00:29 | null | AITA for punishing my son after breaking our deal? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18afinv/aita_for_punishing_my_son_after_breaking_our_deal/ | 18afinv | 945 | 0 |
1.5 yrs ago, a friend relapsed and ended up drunk after work. I drove him home and on the way it came up that he had been given a bag of a hard drug while he was out. I asked where it was and he first lied that he had gotten rid of it. He eventually admitted that it was in the trunk of my vehicle in his briefcase. We u... | itsmyjobnow27 | 2023-12-04T08:05:48 | null | AITA for still refusing to give a friend rides after they lied to me about bringing hard drugs into my car without me knowing 1.5 years ago | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aflh6/aita_for_still_refusing_to_give_a_friend_rides/ | 18aflh6 | 2,923 | 16 |
My partner and I are getting married. It will be a small wedding, we want to invite all out closest friends, family and their respective partners.
Now to the problem:
My partners sisters dating life is complicated. She has pretty bad taste in men, and seems to be dating one non-committal guy after the other. She had b... | PigletIndividual946 | 2023-12-04T08:29:22 | null | WIBTA if I don't give a plus one to my SIL | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18afw2u/wibta_if_i_dont_give_a_plus_one_to_my_sil/ | 18afw2u | 2,255 | 0 |
I (23F) live with a roommate (25F) that owns the house. We had previously agreed upon a set amount for renting two rooms and a bathroom and her agreeing that she wasn’t going to rent to anyone else. Now apparently there is going to be another roommate moving into this other bedroom I was using as a study room. I’m not ... | teachingmua | 2023-12-04T08:31:26 | null | AITA for wanting rent reduced? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18afx1t/aita_for_wanting_rent_reduced/ | 18afx1t | 1,070 | 2 |
Me 25(F) and my bf 32(M) have been together for 7 years and now have a 2 month old baby. He is a great dad and very helpful with the baby and sometimes with cooking. I am exclusively breastfeeding and it is very hard to keep up with the chores. Sometimes he mentions I should start adapting better and manage better my n... | Lucky-Beginning9771 | 2023-12-04T08:37:10 | null | AITA for thinking of leaving my baby daddy? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18afzky/aita_for_thinking_of_leaving_my_baby_daddy/ | 18afzky | 1,883 | 2 |
I hadn’t spoken to this guy for a long time. He just messaged me out of the blue asking if he could borrow money because he’s in debt and he’s promised to pay me back next week, swearing on this, swearing on that. I told him I’m not going to lend him money and then he started guilting me but I stood firm.
He showed m... | AstronomerFearless43 | 2023-12-04T08:40:42 | null | AITAH for turning down a former co-worker who contacted me after 7 years needing money to pay debts | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ag11z/aitah_for_turning_down_a_former_coworker_who/ | 18ag11z | 786 | 10 |
My (16f) brother (19m) was in an inpatient care facility for 6ish months. He’s doing well now and looks back at his time positively.
He recently started dating this girl, Kelly 19, and invited her over for dinner. She was fine, a little odd but fine.
Anyways, mom was a little stressed the other night and was laying ... | throwaway7101A | 2023-12-04T08:43:13 | null | AITA for snapping at my brother for yelling at our mom? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ag275/aita_for_snapping_at_my_brother_for_yelling_at/ | 18ag275 | 2,836 | 3 |
Okay so I (f18) met a guy (m22) who told me he loved me after we had met just two times. We met in a bar, we talked and had good time together. We exchanged snapchats and talked how we should meet up again.
We met a week later and we watched a movie and slept together. He told me many times how he loved me so much an... | OkError2649 | 2023-12-04T08:53:18 | null | AITA for leaving a guy who told me he loved me? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ag6wd/aita_for_leaving_a_guy_who_told_me_he_loved_me/ | 18ag6wd | 972 | 9 |
I 22M just recently separated from my ex 23F after a 5 year long relationship. She ended it over the phone while I was out of town for work. About a month after we seperated. She came by my place to pick up her things and I asked her if we could talk. She seemed to reluctantly agree. We talked for awhile but she kept c... | No_Research8304 | 2023-12-04T09:07:16 | null | AITA for accusing my ex of cheating? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18agd48/aita_for_accusing_my_ex_of_cheating/ | 18agd48 | 2,094 | 2 |
I 41f have been dating my partner 47m for 4 years. This entire time I have always been second string to his job, friend’s and his children and cousin! When I met him I was going through a difficult time in my own career and finances so I admit I didn’t really think I was worthy of a man like him. Fast forward to 2022 w... | Sickofthebarriers | 2023-12-04T09:10:51 | null | AITA for despising my BF family dynamic? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ageog/aita_for_despising_my_bf_family_dynamic/ | 18ageog | 2,032 | 0 |
At the time of this story I was about 13, and my cousin was 14. The hous ewas structured with a large back room that connected tobthe kitchen, living room, and our shared room. The tv would shine towards us but anywhere past the tv cabinet at night would be pitch black. My cousin and I watched the exorcism of Emily Ros... | Ok_Narwhal_3281 | 2023-12-04T09:38:29 | null | AITA for scaring my cousin after we watched the exorcism of Emily Rose? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18agqxn/aita_for_scaring_my_cousin_after_we_watched_the/ | 18agqxn | 2,264 | 0 |
I (25F) have two cats. One is happy to stay indoors all the time, but the other one likes to go outside. Unfortunately, building a cat in closure is not possible due to the layout of our garden (it would stop us from being able to access the garden) so when I let her go outside, I put her on a harness and a lead and I ... | New-Pea-3721 | 2023-12-04T09:59:18 | null | AITA for having my cat on a lead? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ah0nl/aita_for_having_my_cat_on_a_lead/ | 18ah0nl | 1,329 | 3 |
So I'll start with saying I'm changing names on the people involved.
It started a few years ago, my younger sister Danielle had only seen my new son once, she then made arrangements to visit, I had text a few days prior to see if she needed picking up or was OK with the bus, no response. I tried again, no response. I... | SignificantBoss7719 | 2023-12-04T10:02:42 | null | AITA for not offering a bed to my homeless sister? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ah2km/aita_for_not_offering_a_bed_to_my_homeless_sister/ | 18ah2km | 2,228 | 7 |
I(m23) live with my wife(f23) she’s pregnant with our second kid. She’s 38 weeks pregnant. Yesterday she was cleaning all day long. This morning I got all of our extra stuff and took it to storage in the rain. After that I sat on the couch and played video games. Throughout the day I would ask if she needed help with t... | No_Inside_8131 | 2023-12-04T10:06:45 | null | AITA My wife is pregnant and says I don’t help her around the house | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ah4jo/aita_my_wife_is_pregnant_and_says_i_dont_help_her/ | 18ah4jo | 1,290 | 21 |
English is not my native language and I don't live in the States, I will try to convert the currency so that it makes sense.
My girlfriend (30 F) and I (35 M) have been together for almost 3 years, and lived together for 2.
I lived by myself in the suburbs when we started dating, it's close to where I work and I like... | Polien_Net8792 | 2023-12-04T10:15:23 | null | AITA for asking my gf to pay more than half the rent? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ah8k4/aita_for_asking_my_gf_to_pay_more_than_half_the/ | 18ah8k4 | 2,005 | 1 |
Three years ago we bought a new-to-us minivan to replace a 15 yr old top-of-the-line minivan. My father had terminal cancer and their van was falling apart and in poor shape. I asked my parents if they would be interested in the van. My 17 yr old son was using it, but we also had a beat up sedan he could use, and even ... | Critical_Volume1974 | 2023-12-04T10:20:23 | null | AITA for asking my Mom for first option to buy back a van I sold to her well below market value? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahatv/aita_for_asking_my_mom_for_first_option_to_buy/ | 18ahatv | 1,817 | 1 |
Would I be thee asshole for deciding my husband's family can not be part of our kids life??
I (27f) am 30 weeks pregnant and live with my husband (26m). We have been married for only a few months and we've dated for 3 years.
Everything was great prior to us getting married and especially me falling pregnant. It seem... | Arch_Nemesis14 | 2023-12-04T10:26:27 | null | WIBTA to my in-laws?? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahdq1/wibta_to_my_inlaws/ | 18ahdq1 | 2,131 | 1 |
My sons (5) dad (my ex) got him an ipad for his birthday. He brings it to and from his dads house to ours. I only let him use it for about 1 hour a day. My step son (9) wants to use it too but I dont think my son should have to share. If my son wants to give him a turn then thats great but I dont think my step son shou... | Beneficial_Force_123 | 2023-12-04T10:30:28 | null | AITA for not making my son share his ipad? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahfle/aita_for_not_making_my_son_share_his_ipad/ | 18ahfle | 512 | 4 |
I’m m 38 bi
Currently in long term relationship with f 29
My partner wants us to spend about a week at least at her folks for the holidays, I’m heavily urinary incontinent, and wear adult incontinence aids 24/7
I try to keep this aspect of my life as secretive as possible, the last time we spent several nights there.... | Link-Hyrule-Hero | 2023-12-04T10:34:14 | null | AITA for not wanting spend Xmas holidays at parters parents | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahhg3/aita_for_not_wanting_spend_xmas_holidays_at/ | 18ahhg3 | 999 | 1 |
I was playing with him recently some games with one plus of my friends and he started singing/doing sounds with his mouth. He knows that it gives me headaches but he keeps continuing doing them to the point I got mad and yelled/screamed at him to shut the fuck up. Then he got mad and left the call. So am I the asshole ... | ididos_brownie | 2023-12-04T10:37:59 | null | AITA for telling my friend to shut the fuck up because he kept singing and making sounds (chewing to be specific) with his mouth? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahj6g/aita_for_telling_my_friend_to_shut_the_fuck_up/ | 18ahj6g | 474 | 0 |
I’m F 20 I have 3 sisters a twin sister a 17yr old sister and an 11yr sister I am the oldest.
My 11yr sister has started secondary school and she was fine going in for the first month now, she is refusing to go in.
She either will go in, in the afternoon or not at all. There have been times such as more recently when... | bigslay2003 | 2023-12-04T10:41:44 | null | AITA for not wanting to care for my sister? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahl12/aita_for_not_wanting_to_care_for_my_sister/ | 18ahl12 | 2,531 | 5 |
I (28f) have been married to my husband, (42m) for 2 years, together for 4. He has 3 children from a previous marriage, Lucas (18m), Lily (16f) and Kayla (13f). While I do not dislike children, I don't want children of my own, and I made this very clear to him when we dated. This wasn't an issue because he only got his... | IcyTap6812 | 2023-12-04T10:56:18 | null | AITA for refusing to let my stepdaughter live with us | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahsgb/aita_for_refusing_to_let_my_stepdaughter_live/ | 18ahsgb | 3,530 | 23 |
I recently started going for walks around the neighbourhood, as part of my new commitment to trying to keep fit. I noticed that my routine coincides with that of a lady who lives down the street. She walks her two dogs (Great Dane and chocolate Labrador) every morning.
Now, I really enjoy her company. We chat and hav... | PieceMajestic9715 | 2023-12-04T10:59:11 | null | AITA for not wanting to go on a walk with my friend because of her dogs? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahtra/aita_for_not_wanting_to_go_on_a_walk_with_my/ | 18ahtra | 2,049 | 2 |
I (27F) and my husband (27m) have a baby boy who is 6 months old. His 2 brothers have kinds too (3/3/1 year old). His aunt has a disabled son (25m) who I will call Jimmy.
Jimmy is Physically and mentally disabled (he is like a 5 year old boy can't properly walk/hold things ect.). I really love Jimmy and I am trying to... | LilaA2 | 2023-12-04T11:00:07 | null | AITA for not caring what my husband disabled cousin wants | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahu7y/aita_for_not_caring_what_my_husband_disabled/ | 18ahu7y | 3,158 | 11 |
I (23F) didn't go to my friend's (26F) birthday party and now she is mad. Let's start at the beginning. My friend (that we will call Chloe) was planning a birthday trip away to a different city for the weekend. I told her that I could only come on Sunday because I had a class on Saturday morning and wanted to save mone... | eciex | 2023-12-04T11:03:45 | null | AITA for not going to my friend's birthday party | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahwkn/aita_for_not_going_to_my_friends_birthday_party/ | 18ahwkn | 2,674 | 1 |
For context: my girlfriend lives away from her parents and since I’m a masters student I now live back with mine. I’m half caucasian half Middle Eastern (far more brown than white though) and she is caucasian. We have been dating for over half a year now and a month or two ago I met her family at a gathering. All was g... | NightmareTomato | 2023-12-04T11:04:59 | null | AITA for not wanting to associate with my GF racist dad at Christmas? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ahx8l/aita_for_not_wanting_to_associate_with_my_gf/ | 18ahx8l | 2,939 | 5 |
In May, after my [25F] BILs [18M] graduation, my in-laws [55F, 53M] told us they were getting a divorce. They told us they had been separated since June but cohabiting for my BIL’s sake. They told us that we would still all have our family holidays together, like birthdays and Christmas. This helped lessen the blow a l... | DivorcedChristmas | 2023-12-04T11:22:08 | null | WIBTA if I called out my FIL for not coming to Christmas? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18ai62w/wibta_if_i_called_out_my_fil_for_not_coming_to/ | 18ai62w | 2,588 | 2 |
AITA: Ex GF accused me of attacking her
AITA - 32(M) and now ex GF 39(F) together 4 years, accused me of attacking her months ago and now after she broke up with me says I’m threatening her.
Quick background - ex GF has an army background (never served abroad) and had this unhealthy anxiety towards her pet dog, who ... | ThisIsPB | 2023-12-04T11:34:56 | null | AITA - ex girlfriend accused me of attacking her | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aicqk/aita_ex_girlfriend_accused_me_of_attacking_her/ | 18aicqk | 2,259 | 1 |
So she owes me money for cleaning her house. Yesterday which was the day she was supposed to pay me, her phone has conveniently been shut off and I feel like she could have told me her phone was going to be off the day before. So obviously if she can't afford to pay her phone bill, she can't afford to pay me.
I'm pis... | Unusual_Focus1905 | 2023-12-04T11:35:12 | null | WIBTA if I show up at my friend's house who owes me money? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aicws/wibta_if_i_show_up_at_my_friends_house_who_owes/ | 18aicws | 960 | 1 |
My boyfriend suggested i should move out of my parent's house because i am complaining about them all the time. He told me I should practice my independence I'm old already. I live in a third-world country with no college degree, it's difficult for me to be independent. I sell my artwork but it is not a regular income... | blobbylub | 2023-12-04T11:37:21 | null | AITA for forcing my boyfriend to come live with me | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aie0u/aita_for_forcing_my_boyfriend_to_come_live_with_me/ | 18aie0u | 1,961 | 1 |
So a few weeks ago me (F32) and my husband (M31) were at a friends wedding out of town.
We have a large group of friends who all traveled to be there and we all stayed at the same hotel.
We have several group chats, with the bigger circle, the smaller circle who see each other often and the guys have their own and t... | AITAHThrowawa | 2023-12-04T11:37:37 | null | AITAH for slipping my husbands condom under my friends door? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aie5p/aitah_for_slipping_my_husbands_condom_under_my/ | 18aie5p | 1,853 | 1 |
ı (20F) am roommates with this girl (19F). We don’t get along that well. We are civil to each other but that’s that, we aren’t friends. Her birthday is in 2 days. She is turning 20 which is a big deal for her.
I was wondering if I would be the asshole if I didn’t get her anything. Don’t get me wrong, I initially wante... | Gold-Salary7547 | 2023-12-04T11:41:17 | null | WIBTA if I didn’t get my rommate anything for her birthday? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aifzz/wibta_if_i_didnt_get_my_rommate_anything_for_her/ | 18aifzz | 1,191 | 0 |
We have open book exams. I(20m) brought my textbook but my friend(20m) forgot his. He only realized this when there was only 10 minutes left before the exam. He asked if he could borrow my money, run to the university bookstore and buy one. I told him yes and handed him some cash. He took off. He came back saying that ... | Sirajhes | 2023-12-04T11:46:18 | null | AITA for not letting my friend borrow my textbook for an exam? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aiimg/aita_for_not_letting_my_friend_borrow_my_textbook/ | 18aiimg | 1,027 | 1 |
I met this guy 24M and lives in a different country, we met on social media and began a relationship instantly. Everything is long distance and he made plans to visit me one day and my family also. I am a 21F who is studying and working at the same time as a student support tutor and he is self employed meaning he has ... | ilovespaghetti01 | 2023-12-04T11:46:34 | null | AITA for refusing to lend my ex boyfriend money? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/18aiirc/aita_for_refusing_to_lend_my_ex_boyfriend_money/ | 18aiirc | 3,002 | 1 |
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