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Maybe "It's great to collaborate," or "That's what friends are for."	Tal vez "es genial colaborar" o "Para eso están los amigos".	en-es
I want you to think about how you think about this ticket that you have to travel your social universe.	Θέλω να αναλογιστείτε πώς σκέφτεστε γι' αυτό το εισιτήριο που έχετε για να ταξιδεύετε στο κοινωνικό σας σύμπαν	en-el
Here's one metaphor.	Aquí hay una metáfora.	en-es
It's a common metaphor: "Life is a journey." Right?	它是常見的比喻：「人生是一趟旅程。」對吧？	en-zh-tw
It's a train ride, and you're a passenger on the train, and there are certain people with you.	Tren yolculuğudur ve o trende bir yolcusunuz ve sizinle birlikte belirli kişiler var.	en-tr
Certain people get on this train, and some stay with you, some leave at different stops, new ones may enter.	Bazıları bu trene biniyor, bazıları sizinle kalıyor, bazıları farklı duraklarda iniyor yenileri biniyor.	en-tr
I love this metaphor, it's a beautiful one.	أحب هذه الاستعارة أنها جميلة	en-ar
But I want you to consider a different metaphor.	Але я хочу, щоб ви поміркували над іншою метафорою.	en-uk
This one is passive, being a passenger on that train, and it's quite linear.	身為火車乘客的這個比喻很被動，且它是很線性的。	en-zh-tw
You're off to some particular destination.	Valahová megérkezünk.	en-hu
Why not instead think of yourself as an atom, bumping up against other atoms, maybe transferring energy with them, bonding with them a little and maybe creating something new on your travels through the social universe.	そうではなく自分を原子のように考えてはどうでしょう他の原子とぶつかり合いエネルギーをやり取りし結合して何か新しいものを生み出しながら社会という宇宙を旅する存在です	en-ja
Thank you so much.	: Е, много благодаря.	en-bg
And I hope we bump into each other again.	Я сподіваюся, що ми зіштовхнемося знову.	en-uk
Alisa Volkman: So this is where our story begins -- the dramatic moments of the birth of our first son, Declan.	Алиса Волкман: Овде наша прича почоње... драматични тренуци рођења нашег првог сина, Деклана.	en-sr
Obviously a really profound moment, and it changed our lives in many ways.	لقد كانت لحظة محورية .. فقد غيرت حياتنا في عدة مناحي	en-ar
It also changed our lives in many unexpected ways, and those unexpected ways we later reflected on, that eventually spawned a business idea between the two of us, and a year later, we launched Babble, a website for parents.	Juga mengubah hidup kami dengan banyak cara yang tidak terduga, dan cara-cara tidak terduga itulah yang kami renungkan kembali, dan kemudian menelurkan ide bisnis di antara kami berdua, dan setahun kemudian, kami mendirikan Babble, sebuah situs bagi orang tua.	en-id
Rufus Griscom: Now I think of our story as starting a few years earlier. AV: That's true.	روفوس جريسكوم : انا اعتقد ان قصتنا كانت قد بدأت من قبل هذا ( أليسا فولكمان : : نعم هذا صحيح )	en-ar
RG: You may remember, we fell head over heels in love.	(AV: Ez így van.) RG: Talán emlékszel, hogy fülig szerelmesek voltunk.	en-hu
AV: We did.	ΑΒ: Ναι αλήθεια είναι.	en-el
RG: We were at the time running a very different kind of website.	RG：当時は今とかなり異なるウェブサイト	en-ja
It was a website called Nerve.com, the tagline of which was "literate smut."	它叫做：Nerve.com 它的标题是有关“色情文学”。	en-zh-cn
It was in theory, and hopefully in practice, a smart online magazine about sex and culture.	Era în teorie, şi să sperăm că şi practică, o revistă online deşteaptă despre sex şi cultură.	en-ro
AV: That spawned a dating site.	AV: Daí surgiu um site de encontros.	en-pt-br
But you can understand the jokes that we get. Sex begets babies.	Но можете да разберете шегите, които си правеха с нас.	en-bg
You follow instructions on Nerve and you should end up on Babble, which we did.	Tình dục tạo ra những đứa trẻ. Các bạn làm theo những chỉ dẫn trong Nerve và kết cục là các bạn đến với Babble, như chúng tôi vậy.	en-vi
And we might launch a geriatric site as our third. We'll see.	Şi s-ar putea să lansăm un site de geriatrie ca al treilea.	en-ro
RG: But for us, the continuity between Nerve and Babble was not just the life stage thing, which is, of course, relevant, but it was really more about our desire to speak very honestly about subjects that people have difficulty speaking honestly about.	RG：でも私たちにとって二つのサイトの共通項は単にライフステージだけではなくそれも関係はあるのですがそれよりも人が避けたがる話題こそ人々は率直に話し合いたいという強い願望を持っていることです	en-ja
It seems to us that when people start dissembling, people start lying about things, that's when it gets really interesting.	Wydaje nam się, że gdy ludzie zakładają maski, gdy zaczynają kłamać na jakiś temat, wtedy robi się naprawdę ciekawie,	en-pl
That's a subject that we want to dive into.	dat is een onderwerp waar we ons in willen verdiepen.	en-nl
And we've been surprised to find, as young parents, that there are almost more taboos around parenting than there are around sex.	Và chúng tôi rất ngạc nhiên khi thấy rằng, là những bậc phụ huynh trẻ tuổi, Có nhiều điều kiêng kị về việc làm cha me hơn là về tình dục	en-vi
AV: It's true. So like we said, the early years were really wonderful, but they were also really difficult.	AV: É verdade. Tal como dissemos, os anos iniciais foram fantásticos, mas também foram muito difíceis.	en-pt
And we feel like some of that difficulty was because of this false advertisement around parenting.	Şi simţim că o parte din acea dificultate a fost datorită acestei reclame false din jurul creşterii copiilor.	en-ro
(Laughter) We subscribed to a lot of magazines, did our homework, but really everywhere you look around, we were surrounded by images like this.	(Râsete) Ne-am abonat la o grămada de reviste, ne-am făcut temele, dar oriunde te uiţi, eram înconjuraţi de imagini ca asta.	en-ro
And we went into parenting expecting our lives to look like this.	그리고 우리의 삶도 이러할 것이라고 기대하며 양육에 임했습니다.	en-ko
The sun was always streaming in, and our children would never be crying.	Що сонечко завжди сяятиме, наші дітки ніколи не плакатимуть.	en-uk
I would always be perfectly coiffed and well rested, and in fact, it was not like that at all.	Aş fi mereu bine odihnită. Şi de fapt, n-a fost nimic de genul ăsta.	en-ro
RG: When we lowered the glossy parenting magazine that we were looking at, with these beautiful images, and looked at the scene in our actual living room, it looked a little bit more like this.	ΡΓ: Όταν χαμηλώσαμε το γυαλιστερό περιοδικό για γονείς στο οποίο κοιτούσαμε, με αυτές τις πανέμορφες εικόνες, και κοιτάξαμε τη σκηνή στο πραγματικό μας σαλόνι, έμοιαζε περισσότερο έτσι.	en-el
These are our three sons.	這是我們的三個兒子	en-zh-tw
And of course, they're not always crying and screaming, but with three boys, there's a decent probability that at least one of them will not be comporting himself exactly as he should.	Elbette daima ağlayıp bağırmıyorlar. Ama evde üç oğlan olunca aralarından hiç değilse birinin istenen şekilde davranmaması ihtimali epeyce yüksek.	en-tr
AV: Yes, you can see where the disconnect was happening for us.	對了,我會看到我們怎樣跟那些雜誌的影像脫離	en-zh-tw
We really felt like what we went in expecting had nothing to do with what we were actually experiencing, and so we decided we really wanted to give it to parents straight.	Νιώθαμε πραγματικά ότι αυτό που ξεκινήσαμε να περιμένουμε δεν είχε καμία σχέση με το τι βιώναμε στην πραγματικότητα. Οπότε αποφασίσαμε ότι πραγματικά θέλαμε να δώσουμε την πραγματικότητα στους γονείς.	en-el
We really wanted to let them understand what the realities of parenting were in an honest way.	Nous voulions vraiment les laisser comprendre ce qu'était la réalité des parents de façon sincère.	en-fr
RG: So today, what we would love to do is share with you four parenting taboos.	所以今天, 我們會想跟各位分享四個有關做父母的禁忌	en-zh-tw
And of course, there are many more than four things you can't say about parenting, but we would like to share with you today four that are particularly relevant for us personally.	И наравно, има много више од четири ствари које не смете да кажете у вези са родитељством. Али желели би данас да поделимо са вама четири које су нама лично биле најрелевантније.	en-sr
So the first, taboo number one: you can't say you didn't fall in love with your baby in the very first minute.	İşte ilk tabu: yüzünü görür görmez bebeğime aşık olmadım diyemezsiniz.	en-tr
I remember vividly, sitting there in the hospital.	Sjećam se jako dobro, sjedeći tamo u bolnici.	en-hr
We were in the process of giving birth to our first child.	ما در روند زايمان اولین فرزندمان بودیم.	en-fa
AV: We, or I?	АВ: Ми или ја?	en-sr
RG: I'm sorry.	RG: Desculpe.	en-pt-br
Misuse of the pronoun.	用錯了代名詞	en-zh-tw
Alisa was very generously in the process of giving birth to our first child -- (AV: Thank you.) -- and I was there with a catcher's mitt.	Η Aλίσα ήταν πολύ γενναία στη διαδικασία της γέννησης του πρώτου μας παιδιού -- (AΒ: Ευχαριστώ) -- και ήμουν εκεί με ένα γάντι του μπέιζμπωλ.	en-el
And I was there with my arms open.	Я чекав на нього з розпростертими обіймами.	en-uk
The nurse was coming at me with this beautiful, beautiful child, and I remember, as she was approaching me, the voices of friends saying, "The moment they put the baby in your hands, you will feel a sense of love that will come over you that is [on] an order of magnitude more powerful than anything you've ever experienced in your entire life."	پرستار داشت با این نوزاد بسیار زیبا بسوی من میامد. و بیاد دارم که همینکه داشت بسوی من میامد، صدای دوستانم توي ذهنم بود که میگفتند: "لحظه ای که نوزاد را بدستت میدهند، یک احساسي از عشق تو را احاطه مي‌كند که عظمت آن بسيار قدرتمندتر از از هر چیزی که تا حال در زندگیت تجربه کرده‌ای خواهد بود."	en-fa
So I was bracing myself for the moment.	İşte o ana hazırlıklı olmaya çalışıyordum.	en-tr
The baby was coming, and I was ready for this Mack truck of love to just knock me off my feet.	in dem das Baby kommen würde, und ich war bereit für diese Truckladung voll Liebe, die mich umhauen würde.	en-de
And instead, when the baby was placed in my hands, it was an extraordinary moment.	És ehelyett, amikor a babát a kezembe tették, az valami különös pillanat volt.	en-hu
This picture is from literally a few seconds after the baby was placed in my hands and I brought him over.	Это фото сделано буквально через пару секунд после того, как мне дали ребенка на руки, и я поднёс его к матери.	en-ru
And you can see, our eyes were glistening.	وە دەتوانن بیبینن،کە چاوە کانمان گەشابونەوە	en-ku
I was overwhelmed with love and affection for my wife, with deep, deep gratitude that we had what appeared to be a healthy child.	Меня переполняло чувство любви и нежности к моей жене, а также глубочайшей признательности за здорового, с виду, ребенка.	en-ru
And it was also, of course, surreal.	Şi era şi, desig, fantastic.	en-ro
I mean, I had to check the tags and make sure.	Musel som skontrolovať visačky a uistiť sa, že som pri správnom dieťati.	en-sk
I was incredulous, "Are you sure this is our child?"	Био сам у неверици: ''Да ли сте сигурни да је ово наше дете?''	en-sr
And this was all quite remarkable.	驚くべきことでした	en-ja
But what I felt towards the child at that moment was deep affection, but nothing like what I feel for him now, five years later.	То, что я чувствовал в тот момент по отношению к ребенку, можно назвать глубокой нежностью, но это чувство нельзя даже близко сравнить с тем, что я испытываю к нему сейчас, 5 лет спустя.	en-ru
And so we've done something here that is heretical.	وقد قمنا بشيء هنا .. لقد رسمنا مخططاً بيانياً ..	en-ar
We have charted our love for our child over time.	子供への愛を時間軸でグラフ化してみました	en-ja
(Laughter) This, as you know, is an act of heresy.	(웃음) 아시다시피 이것은 별난 짓입니다.	en-ko
You're not allowed to chart love.	Zamana göre sevgi miktarı çizelgesi olmaz.	en-tr
The reason you're not allowed to chart love is because we think of love as a binary thing.	Der Grund, warum wir Liebe nicht grafisch darstellen dürfen, ist, dass wir Liebe als binäre Kategorie wahrnehmen.	en-de
You're either in love, or you're not in love.	你要么爱，要么不爱。	en-zh-cn
You love, or you don't love.	Milujete alebo nemilujete.	en-sk
And I think the reality is that love is a process, and I think the problem with thinking of love as something that's binary is that it causes us to be unduly concerned that love is fraudulent, or inadequate, or what have you.	Eu acho que o amor é um processo. E acho que o problema de pensar no amor como uma coisa que é binária é que isso leva-nos a pensar, indevidamente, que o amor é fraudulento, inadequado, ou seja o que for.	en-pt
And I think I'm speaking obviously here to the father's experience.	Eu estou obviamente a falar da experiência de ser pai.	en-pt
But I think a lot of men do go through this sense in the early months, maybe their first year, that their emotional response is inadequate in some fashion.	אבל אני חושב שהרבה אבות מרגישים כך בחודשים הראשונים, אולי בשנה הראשונה, שהתגובה הרגשית שלהם היא לא מספקת באיזה שהוא אופן.	en-he
AV: Well, I'm glad Rufus is bringing this up, because you can notice where he dips in the first years where I think I was doing most of the work.	AV: Tôi rất mừng vì Rufus đã nói về điều này, bởi vì bạn có thể nhận thấy khi nào anh ấy tụt dốc trong những năm đầu tiên khi đó tôi nghĩ tôi đang làm hầu hết mọi việc.	en-vi
But we like to joke, in the first few months of all of our children's lives, this is Uncle Rufus.	Однако, как мы любим шутить, в первые месяцы жизни всех наших детей, он для них - дядя Руфус.	en-ru
(Laughter) RG: I'm a very affectionate uncle, very affectionate uncle.	(웃음) RG: 저는 매우 다정한, 매우 다정한 아저씨예요.	en-ko
AV: Yes, and I often joke with Rufus when he comes home that I'm not sure he would actually be able to find our child in a line-up amongst other babies.	AV: Tak, i często żartuję z Rufusa gdy wraca do domu, że nie jestem pewna, czy umiałby odróżnić nasze dziecko w szeregu pośród innych dzieci.	en-pl
So I actually threw a pop quiz here onto Rufus.	実際にルーファスにクイズを出してみましょう	en-ja
RG: Uh oh.	RG: Uh oh.	en-nl
AV: I don't want to embarrass him too much. But I am going to give him three seconds.	AV : Je ne veux pas trop le gêner. Mais je vais lui donner trois secondes.	en-fr
RG: That is not fair. This is a trick question. He's not up there, is he?	روفوس جريسكوم : انه هذا ليس بعدل .. انه سؤال خادع .. انه ليس بينهم أليس كذلك ؟	en-ar
AV: Our eight-week-old son is somewhere in here, and I want to see if Rufus can actually quickly identify him.	Nu e acolo, nu-i aşa? AV: Fiul nostru de opt săptămâni e undeva pe acolo. Şi vreau să văd dacă Rufus poate să-l identifice rapid.	en-ro
RG: The far left. AV: No!	ΡΓ: Τέλος αριστερά.	en-el
(Laughter) RG: Cruel.	(AV: Nie!) (Śmiech) RG: Okrutne.	en-pl
AV: Nothing more to be said.	AV:더 이상 들을 말이 없군요.	en-ko
(Laughter) I'll move on to taboo number two.	(Smích) Pojďme dál, tabu číslo dvě.	en-cs
You can't talk about how lonely having a baby can be.	ناتوانیت بڵێیت دەشێت هەبوونی منداڵێک چەند شتێکی تەنهای بێت	en-ku
I enjoyed being pregnant. I loved it.	Fajnie było być w ciąży, uwielbiałam to.	en-pl
I felt incredibly connected to the community around me.	L'ho adorato. Mi sentivo incredibilmente connessa con la comunità intorno a me.	en-it
I felt like everyone was participating in my pregnancy, all around me, tracking it down till the actual due-date.	j'ai eu l'impression que tout le monde participait à ma grossesse, tout autour de moi, la suivant jusqu'au jour J.	en-fr
I felt like I was a vessel of the future of humanity.	Я чувствовала себя этаким "сосудом надежды на будущее" всего человечества.	en-ru
That continued into the the hospital. It was really exhilarating.	連續到我在醫院的時候, 這真是令人振奮	en-zh-tw
I was shower with gifts and flowers and visitors.	Hediyeler, çiçekler, ziyaretçiler yağıyordu.	en-tr
It was a really wonderful experience, but when I got home, I suddenly felt very disconnected and suddenly shut in and shut out, and I was really surprised by those feelings.	Fue una experiencia maravillosa. Pero cuando llegué a casa de repente me sentí muy desconectada y, de pronto, encerrada y excluida. Realmente me sorprendían esos sentimientos.	en-es
I did expect it to be difficult, have sleepless nights, constant feedings, but I did not expect the feelings of isolation and loneliness that I experienced, and I was really surprised that no one had talked to me, that I was going to be feeling this way.	저는 잠 못 자는 밤들, 계속되는 수유가 힘드리라고는 예상했었지만 제가 경험했던 고립감과 외로움은) 예상하지는 못했습니다. 그리고 제가 이러한 감정을 느끼고 있을 때 아무도 저에게 말을 걸지 않았다는 것에 정말 놀랐습니다.	en-ko
And I called my sister whom I'm very close to -- and had three children -- and I asked her, "Why didn't you tell me I was going to be feeling this way, that I was going to have these -- feeling incredibly isolated?"	Я зателефонувала сестрі, з якою ми дуже близькі (і в якої троє дітей) і запитала її: "Чому ти не сказала мені, що я буду себе так почувати, що я буду відчувати це – таку неймовірну самотність?"	en-uk
And she said -- I'll never forget -- "It's just not something you want to say to a mother that's having a baby for the first time."	Và chị ấy nói - Tôi không bao giờ quên - "Đó không phải là điều bạn muốn nói với một người mẹ đang chuẩn bị có đứa con đầu lòng."	en-vi
RG: And of course, we think it's precisely what you really should be saying to mothers who have kids for the first time.	RG: E claro, nós pensamos que é precisamente o que devemos mesmo dizer às mães que têm filhos pela primeira vez.	en-pt
And that this, of course, one of the themes for us is that we think that candor and brutal honesty is critical to us collectively being great parents.	És persze ez az egyik olyan téma, amivel kapcsolatban úgy gondoltuk, hogy a nyíltság és a nyers őszinteség valamennyiünk számára elengedhetetlen ahhoz, hogy jó szülők legyünk.	en-hu

Maybe "It's great to collaborate," or "That's what friends are for."

Tal vez "es genial colaborar" o "Para eso están los amigos".

en-es

I want you to think about how you think about this ticket that you have to travel your social universe.

Θέλω να αναλογιστείτε πώς σκέφτεστε γι' αυτό το εισιτήριο που έχετε για να ταξιδεύετε στο κοινωνικό σας σύμπαν

en-el

Here's one metaphor.

Aquí hay una metáfora.

en-es

It's a common metaphor: "Life is a journey." Right?

它是常見的比喻：「人生是一趟旅程。」對吧？

en-zh-tw

It's a train ride, and you're a passenger on the train, and there are certain people with you.

Tren yolculuğudur ve o trende bir yolcusunuz ve sizinle birlikte belirli kişiler var.

en-tr

Certain people get on this train, and some stay with you, some leave at different stops, new ones may enter.

Bazıları bu trene biniyor, bazıları sizinle kalıyor, bazıları farklı duraklarda iniyor yenileri biniyor.

en-tr

I love this metaphor, it's a beautiful one.

أحب هذه الاستعارة أنها جميلة

en-ar

But I want you to consider a different metaphor.

Але я хочу, щоб ви поміркували над іншою метафорою.

en-uk

This one is passive, being a passenger on that train, and it's quite linear.

身為火車乘客的這個比喻很被動，且它是很線性的。

en-zh-tw

You're off to some particular destination.

Valahová megérkezünk.

en-hu

Why not instead think of yourself as an atom, bumping up against other atoms, maybe transferring energy with them, bonding with them a little and maybe creating something new on your travels through the social universe.

そうではなく自分を原子のように考えてはどうでしょう他の原子とぶつかり合いエネルギーをやり取りし結合して何か新しいものを生み出しながら社会という宇宙を旅する存在です

en-ja

Thank you so much.

: Е, много благодаря.

en-bg

And I hope we bump into each other again.

Я сподіваюся, що ми зіштовхнемося знову.

en-uk

Alisa Volkman: So this is where our story begins -- the dramatic moments of the birth of our first son, Declan.

Алиса Волкман: Овде наша прича почоње... драматични тренуци рођења нашег првог сина, Деклана.

en-sr

Obviously a really profound moment, and it changed our lives in many ways.

لقد كانت لحظة محورية .. فقد غيرت حياتنا في عدة مناحي

en-ar

It also changed our lives in many unexpected ways, and those unexpected ways we later reflected on, that eventually spawned a business idea between the two of us, and a year later, we launched Babble, a website for parents.

Juga mengubah hidup kami dengan banyak cara yang tidak terduga, dan cara-cara tidak terduga itulah yang kami renungkan kembali, dan kemudian menelurkan ide bisnis di antara kami berdua, dan setahun kemudian, kami mendirikan Babble, sebuah situs bagi orang tua.

en-id

Rufus Griscom: Now I think of our story as starting a few years earlier. AV: That's true.

روفوس جريسكوم : انا اعتقد ان قصتنا كانت قد بدأت من قبل هذا ( أليسا فولكمان : : نعم هذا صحيح )

en-ar

RG: You may remember, we fell head over heels in love.

(AV: Ez így van.) RG: Talán emlékszel, hogy fülig szerelmesek voltunk.

en-hu

AV: We did.

ΑΒ: Ναι αλήθεια είναι.

en-el

RG: We were at the time running a very different kind of website.

RG：当時は今とかなり異なるウェブサイト

en-ja

It was a website called Nerve.com, the tagline of which was "literate smut."

它叫做：Nerve.com 它的标题是有关“色情文学”。

en-zh-cn

It was in theory, and hopefully in practice, a smart online magazine about sex and culture.

Era în teorie, şi să sperăm că şi practică, o revistă online deşteaptă despre sex şi cultură.

en-ro

AV: That spawned a dating site.

AV: Daí surgiu um site de encontros.

en-pt-br

But you can understand the jokes that we get. Sex begets babies.

Но можете да разберете шегите, които си правеха с нас.

en-bg

You follow instructions on Nerve and you should end up on Babble, which we did.

Tình dục tạo ra những đứa trẻ. Các bạn làm theo những chỉ dẫn trong Nerve và kết cục là các bạn đến với Babble, như chúng tôi vậy.

en-vi

And we might launch a geriatric site as our third. We'll see.

Şi s-ar putea să lansăm un site de geriatrie ca al treilea.

en-ro

RG: But for us, the continuity between Nerve and Babble was not just the life stage thing, which is, of course, relevant, but it was really more about our desire to speak very honestly about subjects that people have difficulty speaking honestly about.

RG：でも私たちにとって二つのサイトの共通項は単にライフステージだけではなくそれも関係はあるのですがそれよりも人が避けたがる話題こそ人々は率直に話し合いたいという強い願望を持っていることです

en-ja

It seems to us that when people start dissembling, people start lying about things, that's when it gets really interesting.

Wydaje nam się, że gdy ludzie zakładają maski, gdy zaczynają kłamać na jakiś temat, wtedy robi się naprawdę ciekawie,

en-pl

That's a subject that we want to dive into.

dat is een onderwerp waar we ons in willen verdiepen.

en-nl

And we've been surprised to find, as young parents, that there are almost more taboos around parenting than there are around sex.

Và chúng tôi rất ngạc nhiên khi thấy rằng, là những bậc phụ huynh trẻ tuổi, Có nhiều điều kiêng kị về việc làm cha me hơn là về tình dục

en-vi

AV: It's true. So like we said, the early years were really wonderful, but they were also really difficult.

AV: É verdade. Tal como dissemos, os anos iniciais foram fantásticos, mas também foram muito difíceis.

en-pt

And we feel like some of that difficulty was because of this false advertisement around parenting.

Şi simţim că o parte din acea dificultate a fost datorită acestei reclame false din jurul creşterii copiilor.

en-ro

(Laughter) We subscribed to a lot of magazines, did our homework, but really everywhere you look around, we were surrounded by images like this.

(Râsete) Ne-am abonat la o grămada de reviste, ne-am făcut temele, dar oriunde te uiţi, eram înconjuraţi de imagini ca asta.

en-ro

And we went into parenting expecting our lives to look like this.

그리고 우리의 삶도 이러할 것이라고 기대하며 양육에 임했습니다.

en-ko

The sun was always streaming in, and our children would never be crying.

Що сонечко завжди сяятиме, наші дітки ніколи не плакатимуть.

en-uk

I would always be perfectly coiffed and well rested, and in fact, it was not like that at all.

Aş fi mereu bine odihnită. Şi de fapt, n-a fost nimic de genul ăsta.

en-ro

RG: When we lowered the glossy parenting magazine that we were looking at, with these beautiful images, and looked at the scene in our actual living room, it looked a little bit more like this.

ΡΓ: Όταν χαμηλώσαμε το γυαλιστερό περιοδικό για γονείς στο οποίο κοιτούσαμε, με αυτές τις πανέμορφες εικόνες, και κοιτάξαμε τη σκηνή στο πραγματικό μας σαλόνι, έμοιαζε περισσότερο έτσι.

en-el

These are our three sons.

這是我們的三個兒子

en-zh-tw

And of course, they're not always crying and screaming, but with three boys, there's a decent probability that at least one of them will not be comporting himself exactly as he should.

Elbette daima ağlayıp bağırmıyorlar. Ama evde üç oğlan olunca aralarından hiç değilse birinin istenen şekilde davranmaması ihtimali epeyce yüksek.

en-tr

AV: Yes, you can see where the disconnect was happening for us.

對了,我會看到我們怎樣跟那些雜誌的影像脫離

en-zh-tw

We really felt like what we went in expecting had nothing to do with what we were actually experiencing, and so we decided we really wanted to give it to parents straight.

Νιώθαμε πραγματικά ότι αυτό που ξεκινήσαμε να περιμένουμε δεν είχε καμία σχέση με το τι βιώναμε στην πραγματικότητα. Οπότε αποφασίσαμε ότι πραγματικά θέλαμε να δώσουμε την πραγματικότητα στους γονείς.

en-el

We really wanted to let them understand what the realities of parenting were in an honest way.

Nous voulions vraiment les laisser comprendre ce qu'était la réalité des parents de façon sincère.

en-fr

RG: So today, what we would love to do is share with you four parenting taboos.

所以今天, 我們會想跟各位分享四個有關做父母的禁忌

en-zh-tw

And of course, there are many more than four things you can't say about parenting, but we would like to share with you today four that are particularly relevant for us personally.

И наравно, има много више од четири ствари које не смете да кажете у вези са родитељством. Али желели би данас да поделимо са вама четири које су нама лично биле најрелевантније.

en-sr

So the first, taboo number one: you can't say you didn't fall in love with your baby in the very first minute.

İşte ilk tabu: yüzünü görür görmez bebeğime aşık olmadım diyemezsiniz.

en-tr

I remember vividly, sitting there in the hospital.

Sjećam se jako dobro, sjedeći tamo u bolnici.

en-hr

We were in the process of giving birth to our first child.

ما در روند زايمان اولین فرزندمان بودیم.

en-fa

AV: We, or I?

АВ: Ми или ја?

en-sr

RG: I'm sorry.

RG: Desculpe.

en-pt-br

Misuse of the pronoun.

用錯了代名詞

en-zh-tw

Alisa was very generously in the process of giving birth to our first child -- (AV: Thank you.) -- and I was there with a catcher's mitt.

Η Aλίσα ήταν πολύ γενναία στη διαδικασία της γέννησης του πρώτου μας παιδιού -- (AΒ: Ευχαριστώ) -- και ήμουν εκεί με ένα γάντι του μπέιζμπωλ.

en-el

And I was there with my arms open.

Я чекав на нього з розпростертими обіймами.

en-uk

The nurse was coming at me with this beautiful, beautiful child, and I remember, as she was approaching me, the voices of friends saying, "The moment they put the baby in your hands, you will feel a sense of love that will come over you that is [on] an order of magnitude more powerful than anything you've ever experienced in your entire life."

پرستار داشت با این نوزاد بسیار زیبا بسوی من میامد. و بیاد دارم که همینکه داشت بسوی من میامد، صدای دوستانم توي ذهنم بود که میگفتند: "لحظه ای که نوزاد را بدستت میدهند، یک احساسي از عشق تو را احاطه مي‌كند که عظمت آن بسيار قدرتمندتر از از هر چیزی که تا حال در زندگیت تجربه کرده‌ای خواهد بود."

en-fa

So I was bracing myself for the moment.

İşte o ana hazırlıklı olmaya çalışıyordum.

en-tr

The baby was coming, and I was ready for this Mack truck of love to just knock me off my feet.

in dem das Baby kommen würde, und ich war bereit für diese Truckladung voll Liebe, die mich umhauen würde.

en-de

And instead, when the baby was placed in my hands, it was an extraordinary moment.

És ehelyett, amikor a babát a kezembe tették, az valami különös pillanat volt.

en-hu

This picture is from literally a few seconds after the baby was placed in my hands and I brought him over.

Это фото сделано буквально через пару секунд после того, как мне дали ребенка на руки, и я поднёс его к матери.

en-ru

And you can see, our eyes were glistening.

وە دەتوانن بیبینن،کە چاوە کانمان گەشابونەوە

en-ku

I was overwhelmed with love and affection for my wife, with deep, deep gratitude that we had what appeared to be a healthy child.

Меня переполняло чувство любви и нежности к моей жене, а также глубочайшей признательности за здорового, с виду, ребенка.

en-ru

And it was also, of course, surreal.

Şi era şi, desig, fantastic.

en-ro

I mean, I had to check the tags and make sure.

Musel som skontrolovať visačky a uistiť sa, že som pri správnom dieťati.

en-sk

I was incredulous, "Are you sure this is our child?"

Био сам у неверици: ''Да ли сте сигурни да је ово наше дете?''

en-sr

And this was all quite remarkable.

驚くべきことでした

en-ja

But what I felt towards the child at that moment was deep affection, but nothing like what I feel for him now, five years later.

То, что я чувствовал в тот момент по отношению к ребенку, можно назвать глубокой нежностью, но это чувство нельзя даже близко сравнить с тем, что я испытываю к нему сейчас, 5 лет спустя.

en-ru

And so we've done something here that is heretical.

وقد قمنا بشيء هنا .. لقد رسمنا مخططاً بيانياً ..

en-ar

We have charted our love for our child over time.

子供への愛を時間軸でグラフ化してみました

en-ja

(Laughter) This, as you know, is an act of heresy.

(웃음) 아시다시피 이것은 별난 짓입니다.

en-ko

You're not allowed to chart love.

Zamana göre sevgi miktarı çizelgesi olmaz.

en-tr

The reason you're not allowed to chart love is because we think of love as a binary thing.

Der Grund, warum wir Liebe nicht grafisch darstellen dürfen, ist, dass wir Liebe als binäre Kategorie wahrnehmen.

en-de

You're either in love, or you're not in love.

你要么爱，要么不爱。

en-zh-cn

You love, or you don't love.

Milujete alebo nemilujete.

en-sk

And I think the reality is that love is a process, and I think the problem with thinking of love as something that's binary is that it causes us to be unduly concerned that love is fraudulent, or inadequate, or what have you.

Eu acho que o amor é um processo. E acho que o problema de pensar no amor como uma coisa que é binária é que isso leva-nos a pensar, indevidamente, que o amor é fraudulento, inadequado, ou seja o que for.

en-pt

And I think I'm speaking obviously here to the father's experience.

Eu estou obviamente a falar da experiência de ser pai.

en-pt

But I think a lot of men do go through this sense in the early months, maybe their first year, that their emotional response is inadequate in some fashion.

אבל אני חושב שהרבה אבות מרגישים כך בחודשים הראשונים, אולי בשנה הראשונה, שהתגובה הרגשית שלהם היא לא מספקת באיזה שהוא אופן.

en-he

AV: Well, I'm glad Rufus is bringing this up, because you can notice where he dips in the first years where I think I was doing most of the work.

AV: Tôi rất mừng vì Rufus đã nói về điều này, bởi vì bạn có thể nhận thấy khi nào anh ấy tụt dốc trong những năm đầu tiên khi đó tôi nghĩ tôi đang làm hầu hết mọi việc.

en-vi

But we like to joke, in the first few months of all of our children's lives, this is Uncle Rufus.

Однако, как мы любим шутить, в первые месяцы жизни всех наших детей, он для них - дядя Руфус.

en-ru

(Laughter) RG: I'm a very affectionate uncle, very affectionate uncle.

(웃음) RG: 저는 매우 다정한, 매우 다정한 아저씨예요.

en-ko

AV: Yes, and I often joke with Rufus when he comes home that I'm not sure he would actually be able to find our child in a line-up amongst other babies.

AV: Tak, i często żartuję z Rufusa gdy wraca do domu, że nie jestem pewna, czy umiałby odróżnić nasze dziecko w szeregu pośród innych dzieci.

en-pl

So I actually threw a pop quiz here onto Rufus.

実際にルーファスにクイズを出してみましょう

en-ja

RG: Uh oh.

en-nl

AV: I don't want to embarrass him too much. But I am going to give him three seconds.

AV : Je ne veux pas trop le gêner. Mais je vais lui donner trois secondes.

en-fr

RG: That is not fair. This is a trick question. He's not up there, is he?

روفوس جريسكوم : انه هذا ليس بعدل .. انه سؤال خادع .. انه ليس بينهم أليس كذلك ؟

en-ar

AV: Our eight-week-old son is somewhere in here, and I want to see if Rufus can actually quickly identify him.

Nu e acolo, nu-i aşa? AV: Fiul nostru de opt săptămâni e undeva pe acolo. Şi vreau să văd dacă Rufus poate să-l identifice rapid.

en-ro

RG: The far left. AV: No!

ΡΓ: Τέλος αριστερά.

en-el

(Laughter) RG: Cruel.

(AV: Nie!) (Śmiech) RG: Okrutne.

en-pl

AV: Nothing more to be said.

AV:더 이상 들을 말이 없군요.

en-ko

(Laughter) I'll move on to taboo number two.

(Smích) Pojďme dál, tabu číslo dvě.

en-cs

You can't talk about how lonely having a baby can be.

ناتوانیت بڵێیت دەشێت هەبوونی منداڵێک چەند شتێکی تەنهای بێت

en-ku

I enjoyed being pregnant. I loved it.

Fajnie było być w ciąży, uwielbiałam to.

en-pl

I felt incredibly connected to the community around me.

L'ho adorato. Mi sentivo incredibilmente connessa con la comunità intorno a me.

en-it

I felt like everyone was participating in my pregnancy, all around me, tracking it down till the actual due-date.

j'ai eu l'impression que tout le monde participait à ma grossesse, tout autour de moi, la suivant jusqu'au jour J.

en-fr

I felt like I was a vessel of the future of humanity.

Я чувствовала себя этаким "сосудом надежды на будущее" всего человечества.

en-ru

That continued into the the hospital. It was really exhilarating.

連續到我在醫院的時候, 這真是令人振奮

en-zh-tw

I was shower with gifts and flowers and visitors.

Hediyeler, çiçekler, ziyaretçiler yağıyordu.

en-tr

It was a really wonderful experience, but when I got home, I suddenly felt very disconnected and suddenly shut in and shut out, and I was really surprised by those feelings.

Fue una experiencia maravillosa. Pero cuando llegué a casa de repente me sentí muy desconectada y, de pronto, encerrada y excluida. Realmente me sorprendían esos sentimientos.

en-es

I did expect it to be difficult, have sleepless nights, constant feedings, but I did not expect the feelings of isolation and loneliness that I experienced, and I was really surprised that no one had talked to me, that I was going to be feeling this way.

저는 잠 못 자는 밤들, 계속되는 수유가 힘드리라고는 예상했었지만 제가 경험했던 고립감과 외로움은) 예상하지는 못했습니다. 그리고 제가 이러한 감정을 느끼고 있을 때 아무도 저에게 말을 걸지 않았다는 것에 정말 놀랐습니다.

en-ko

And I called my sister whom I'm very close to -- and had three children -- and I asked her, "Why didn't you tell me I was going to be feeling this way, that I was going to have these -- feeling incredibly isolated?"

Я зателефонувала сестрі, з якою ми дуже близькі (і в якої троє дітей) і запитала її: "Чому ти не сказала мені, що я буду себе так почувати, що я буду відчувати це – таку неймовірну самотність?"

en-uk

And she said -- I'll never forget -- "It's just not something you want to say to a mother that's having a baby for the first time."

Và chị ấy nói - Tôi không bao giờ quên - "Đó không phải là điều bạn muốn nói với một người mẹ đang chuẩn bị có đứa con đầu lòng."

en-vi

RG: And of course, we think it's precisely what you really should be saying to mothers who have kids for the first time.

RG: E claro, nós pensamos que é precisamente o que devemos mesmo dizer às mães que têm filhos pela primeira vez.

en-pt

And that this, of course, one of the themes for us is that we think that candor and brutal honesty is critical to us collectively being great parents.

És persze ez az egyik olyan téma, amivel kapcsolatban úgy gondoltuk, hogy a nyíltság és a nyers őszinteség valamennyiünk számára elengedhetetlen ahhoz, hogy jó szülők legyünk.

en-hu