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good person and being a bad person You can utilize your newfound composure altruistically or
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malevolently At this crossroads believe most people will realize that being good is the only
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real path because once your submissive behaviors have disintegrated it will become clear that
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they were always the primary drivers for bad behavior
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can tell you from firsthand experience because went from one extreme to another
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When felt was on the bottom was sulky illtempered and hateful always felt like had
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something to prove The majority of my time alone was spent planning retorts and retaliation
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experienced other people as a type of hell Since being desensitized by Program Peaces
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exercises no longer feel these emotions at all Other people are just not a source of negativity
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anymore
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Our ingrained bodily habits make it difficult to just stop sending submissive signals Even if
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somehow we could leave behind our mental concerns related to status our bodies would
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continue to carry symptoms of social defeat like shortness of breath the rock in the pit of our
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stomachs and the hot tension in our faces These are spiritual burdens that will inevitably drag
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us back into the hierarchical fray This book will show you how to mend these symptoms and
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how to lay down the burden of submission shame and stressful social comparison Where do
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we start With the cornerstone of confidence breathing easy
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Breathing Easy Will Pull You Out of Survival Mode
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In most mammals shallow breathing accompanies submission and aggression while deep
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breathing accompanies dominance and assertion A submissive chimp always greets a more
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dominant chimp first and does so using a sequence of short pantgrunts These depthless pants
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are indicative of selfhandicapped breathing Chimps whimper when acting submissively
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producing a highpitched sound accompanied by attenuated breath We also breathe shallowly
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PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
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around others especially when experiencing social anxiety believe that if it were studied
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researchers would find that the extent of deep diaphragmatic breathing is an accurate
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predictor of social dominance the number of offspring quality of life and a wide variety of
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other positive outcomes in primates and all mammals generally Unfortunately there has been
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extraordinarily little related research on breathing style in animals or humans
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Recent experiments have offered us glimpses into the benefits of breathing with the
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diaphragm Study participants that practiced deep breathing achieved significant reductions in
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selfreported anxiety stress hormones heart rate breathing rate blood pressure and the
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activity of the sympathetic stress system It also enhances mood oxygen levels pulmonary
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function cardiorespiratory fitness and respiratory muscle strength as well as parasympathetic
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activity Findings like these along with the benefits have experienced myself have led me to
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believe that the most important message that you can send your body and its cells is Hey its
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totally safe to breathe slowly and deeply
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The scientific community knows shallow breathing to be an indicator of stress and
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sympathetic overactivation But it is rarely recognized as a submissive and conciliatory display
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Recognizing it as such is important in understanding how to counteract it We breathe shallowly
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to show people we are listening to them that we are concerned and do not think of ourselves
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as better than them We face strong unspoken social norms telling us to breathe shallowly
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Tragically however it results in stress adaptation increases our tendency to startle creates
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tension in chakras throughout the body and rewires our mind for negativity
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It is possible to escape the social pressure to breathe shallowly We can do so by building
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strong consistent diaphragmatic breathing habits training ourselves to breathe deeply under
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every possible circumstance Deep breathing in social situations breaks the link between social
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friction and fight or flight It allows you to stop responding to social pressures as if they are
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matters of survival
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Whether you are sitting in a meeting chatting with a friend having an argument or taking
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an exercise class there should be only one competition that is going on in your head Out of
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everyone in the vicinity you want to have the most relaxed breathing The only way to
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accomplish this is to breathe slowly smoothly and deeply reducing the number of breaths you
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breathe per minute Relaxed breathing will liberate you from the status hierarchy and is the
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only thing that you should do aggressively The next chapter will show you how
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Chapter Persistent Adaptation to Chronic Stress
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Chapter Bullet Points
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e Your body is a survival machine designed to support a competitive molecular
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replicator namely your DNA
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e Our biology prioritizes the DNA and for that reason our bodies are designed to sacrifice
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our physical and emotional wellbeing for the sake of survival and reproduction
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e Asone example of this we are built to adapt to stressful environments by upregulating
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our stressresponse activity resulting in anxiety and pain
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e Even in the modern world everyones stress system has been overactivated to some
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extent This anxiety or hyperarousal results in chronic muscular respiratory and
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cardiovascular fatigue
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e Anxiety and chronic stress negatively affect every organ in the body These organ
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systems are roughly congruent with the ancient Hindu system of chakrasfamiliar body
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parts that need to be rehabilitated with love and care
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e We use anxiety as a submissive display to prove to others that we are neither too
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calm nor too good for them
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e The overuse of submissive signals leads to the accumulation of trauma within our
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tissues and organs especially the breathing muscles The result is often chronic defeat
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otherwise known as depression
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e Being nonsubmissive is not about being tougher than anyone else it is about not
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wasting energy on competitive nonsense that leads nowhere
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e Dominant mammals are usually the most composed and the least traumatized and
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hyperaroused They dont feel any need to use anxiety as a form of social lubrication
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e Deep diaphragmatic breathing is the foundation of dominant behavior because it builds
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unconscious selfconfidence
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e You can escape the cycle of social anxiety by breathing deeper and longer breaths in
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social situationsfearing no one but treating everyone well
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e Through developmental plasticity new gene expression you want your body to make
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persistent beneficial adaptations that are responses to an optimal environment
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To do this you must give the body the right cues to trick it into assuming that your
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environment is safe and full of resources This is accomplished by breathing with
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the diaphragm
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PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
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Chapter Endnotes
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Dewitt T J Sih A Wilson D S February Costs and limits of phenotypic
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plasticity Trends in Ecology Evolution
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Kelly S A Panhuis T M Stoehr A M Phenotypic Plasticity Molecular
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Mechanisms and Adaptive Significance Comprehensive Physiology
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Gabriel W How stress selects for reversible phenotypic plasticity Journal of
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Evolutionary Biology
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Pigliucci M Phenotypic plasticity Beyond nature and nurture Johns Hopkins
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University Press
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Reser J E Chronic stress cortical plasticity and neuroecology
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Behavioral Processes
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DeWitt T J Scheiner S M Phenotypic plasticity Functional and conceptual
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